Thursday, July 23, 2009

Way back when

Yesterday evening, while enjoying the sounds of the heavy rain and rumbling thunder,

Mom (ever the optimist) mused out loud, "I hope we don't lose power, I need to do laundry tonight."

Son replied, "That's okay. You can do it by hand."

To which Mom replied, with a stifled laugh and roll of her eyes, "You can do it by hand."

Son reflected, "Hmm. It must've been hard in the 70's."

Now, I know I joke about being old all the time. I don't really mean it. The 1970's are not that long gone. I will concede there are a few things we did not have in the 70's:

The internet.
CDs.
MP3s.
Cell phones.
Airline deregulation.
DVDs (you should have seen the mechanical monster of a VHS player we had!)
Digital cameras.
Laptop computers.
Go-gurt.

Yes, son, life was hard. But we most certainly did have washing machines.

And an Atari.

Monday, July 20, 2009

I'll take that ego boost

My hair has finally grown long enough to be pulled into the tiniest of ponytails. I don't know why I'm letting it grow. I actually prefer it short, and when it is long, it resides twisted up in a clip. But I'm stuck in that in-between stage, not sure what I want to do with it. And so it grows.

So the other day, daring to make a grand divergence from the comfort zone of the clip (if that thing breaks, I will be lost), I grabbed one of my daughter's elastic bands, pulled my hair into a perky little ponytail and headed to the gym.

The reactions of the children when they saw their 30-something mom in a ponytail?

The girl proceeded to tell me how cute it looked, put her own hair in a ponytail and proudly declared us twinkies.

The boy was adamant that it made me look like a teenager.

A teenager? You don't say!

So if you happen to see me around town sporting a sporty ponytail, now you know why.

Sunday, July 12, 2009

Snuggle up with a good book (and a good kid)

Yesterday, I concluded a most wonderful experience with my daughter. We finished reading Peter Pan. No, not the sugar-coated-based-on-the-Disney-movie picture book that somehow made its way onto my children's book shelves, but the original novel by J.M. Barrie. Reading this enchanting book, finally, makes me want to chuck that colorful little Disney book right out of the window.

You may wonder what took me so long to read the original story. To tell you the truth, the only exposure I had ever had to Peter Pan was the animated Disney movie, and based on that, I really had no interest in the story. Oh yeah, and Hook, the movie with Robin Williams cast as Peter. Oh, and images of Sandy Duncan in a bright green elfish-looking outfit. Yeah, no interest.

But a few years ago, I came across a delightfully well-done little movie, Peter Pan. It had a darker, melancholy feeling to it that was intriguing. (Though the movie is rated PG, my kids have not seen it - the scene with the mermaids is a little dark and creepy, which, while true to the book, knowing my kids, would be too much). Seeing this particular movie awakened the interest in me to read the original book.

As I mentioned in a recent post, my DH picked up the book for me on his library excursion with the kids. I intended it for myself, for my own solitary reading pleasure, but offered to read it to the kids (expecting to receive a lukewarm response). My daughter surprised me by taking me up on my offer, and I would be lying if I told you I wasn't a tad disappointed, thinking it would take too long to read aloud and that her waning interest would slow our (my) progress.

Happily, my prediction couldn't have been more wrong. Though I am sure a great deal went over her head, she was a superb listener - active, attentive, inquisitive. The icing on the cake (as if a good cake really needs icing) was having our own special time together to read "our" book, snuggled up on my bed, snuggled up on her bed, snuggled up on the couch. Oh, the snuggles! It took us less than 2 weeks to read it through.

I think she was perplexed (and amused) when my voice cracked and tears welled in my eyes while attempting to read aloud the sweet moment near the end when the 'gay and innocent and heartless' children returned to their mother. But, what kind of mother would I be if I didn't get a little misty-eyed over the happy reunion?

I'm trying to find a good snuggle-up-book to read with my son. But he's a tougher nut to crack. So independent and above being read to by mom. I'm thinking about Old Yeller. I have not read the book nor seen the movie, though I am, of course, acquainted with the story. What do you think? Too much? Or the perfect bonding vehicle?

Thursday, July 2, 2009

Where's Mom?

My daughter is currently watching a movie with one of her best friends who is over today for an extended play-date (i.e. sleepover). The movie is the 12 Dancing Princesses. As they came to a particular spot in the movie (in which the (worn out) king is speaking wistfully to a painting of his late wife, the queen), I overheard the following:

(All delivered in the most hushed whisper. Why they are whispering, I do not know. I am the only other person in the room and I am most clearly and actively NOT paying them any attention)

Daughter's Friend: [whisper, whisper, whisper] What happened to the queen?
Daughter: [whisper] I don't know.

(and then, with a certain authority and air of a person who knows about such things)

Daughter: [still in a whisper] You'll see in stories they just die for no reason.

So this got me to thinking:

12 Dancing Princesses - dead mother
Finding Nemo - dead mother
Brother Bear - dead mother (bear)
Cinderella - dead mother
Ice Age - dead mother
Lilo & Stitch - dead mother (& father)
Aladdin - no mother (?)
Beauty & the Beast - no mother (?)

Anyway ... just wondering.